15 Feb 2023
Fulfillment in life comes to wholeness, completeness. When you are integrated you are in a state of joy
Fulfillment in life comes to wholeness, completeness. When you are integrated you are in a state of joy, bliss or what you called “Ananda”. Only because the polarities within you are in deep harmony. Harmonious living from within gives you fullest of satisfaction in terms of being, so obviously when somebody compliments your life with love, somebody will certainly bring lot of joy, that somebody will certainly complete you in many ways. And when this complementary conflusion completion happens. Your happiness will no, no bounce. The meaning of life will change, colors will seem brighter, fragrances will get deeper, happiness will get more profound, and horizons will become infinite.
You will be on top of the world. But wait! don’t let this moment pass by. No feelings, no emotions are permanent. No relationships are permanent. Life is certainly a hop-in hop-off bus, that doesn’t mean we become nomadic, that doesn’t mean we become animalistic. But the reality of life is, nothing is permanent, change is constant. And yes, change is in relationship also will happen. Today you are attracted to x tomorrow you may attracted to y, third day you will get attracted to z. It’s not all about attraction only. It’s about fine tuning, chemistry and at the end of the day how much you complement each other, how much you uplift each other and how far you are willing to go with each other in celebrating life. Well, when this reaches culmination or crescendo, it translates into a marriage or permanently living in relationship into relationship.
Even those sometimes don’t last forever; relationships at work don’t last forever. So relationships at work generally, are not of permanent nature, they are very transient, because, your work at one particular juncture or on particular organization may not be permanent. But, yes, its upto you, how to get best out of on relationship the time you are with it, give your best to it. Nevertheless, with the thought that this is it. And this is all which is it, until the time something starts going wrong and you can reason and try and hold it together, but yes, if something has to fall apart and you become incomplete once again. And there is pain, because separation causes pain, and if you feel oneness no more, wholeness no more and the divided you could be craving, that is the time what one should do is once again take upto hobbies, singing, dancing speaking to friends, laughter all that could be wonderful. But being with your parents is the best, you can have confidence in them, you can hug them, kiss them, take their blessings and laugh.
Published in Speaking Tree